"What bugs me is some people don’t get married until the girl is pregnant. I’m not even saying if it’s right or wrong cuz everybody has different view according to one’s society moral. But the fact that they didn’t consider getting married before the baby comes is bothering me. Does that mean they weren’t gonna be married at all if they never had kids? Does that mean they don’t love each other enough to give that promise? Does that mean they are forced to take responsibility in a short amount of time and hence “weak” marriage?
It just amaze me when the divorce rate is so high, some people are still getting married without seriously thinking it through or so it seems."
Yes, people seem to neglect to see the responsibilities and the complications of marriage as well. Like what the quote has said, it also bugged me to see people getting married just because the girl is pregnant or just when the girl becames pregnant. Should that really be the case? Though these things has also been a trend here in our country, I still believe that a couple should get married because they want to and because they really love each other not just because of the responsibilities that they are facing. For me, issues should be settled first, if there are any, before getting tied up forever with your partner. I firmly believe still that marriage is sacred and so everyone must really contemplate before indulging to the married life. But whatever you decide to do, just be prepared in facing future challenges.
2 comments:
thanks for this post..I really agree with you..:)
hello -ellesig-..thanks for the comment..so bad that this is now the trend nowadays..that couple seem to get married just because the girl is pregnant..hope that won't be my case soon..just crossin' my fingers..:D
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